Rejection. It’s a fact of life. It happens to all of us, from time to time. It’s one of those lines that runs through so many aspects of our lives - from your job hunt to dating …
I stumbled upon this op-ed on the NPR website the other day - a parent writing about how her son had applied for a summer job, how he had gotten so into it - even corresponding several times with the person taking the applications - and how he never heard a word. Not even a form letter saying that the position had been filled. Now, I know in this day and age, and in this shitty economy, every job listed gets hundred of applicants. I know that in my job search, I have heard back from people … not at all. Even for jobs that were my exact job description. People just don’t have the same courtesy that they used to - appreciation for the time (or feelings) of others. And it stinks.
I’ve written here before, gentle readers, about the men I have dated and their strange and often not-nice behavior. Here’s the thing - telling someone you don’t want to see them any more stinks. It’s hard. You’ll probably hurt their feelings. But not telling them anything, just leaving them hanging, is a dick move. It’s something that guys - the world over - do. They just drop off the face of the earth. Because they’re cowards.
Maybe the people in HR are cowards, too. Maybe they’ve all been left hanging by some guy one too many times. Maybe they’ve just all forgotten how terrible it feels to be left hanging, sitting by the phone, waiting for that call that never comes …
